Now, add in the fact that you're with at least one other person going through the same process and things get pretty complicated. You suggest pizza, but the other person just had that last night. They suggest Chinese, but you were planning on having Chinese with family later on in the day. The pressure builds, and soon that small decision becomes your world's most unsolvable problem. Linda Sapadin, Ph.D. at Psych Central explains that part of the problem is that a lot of things sound good at the time: